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Real Men Want Feedback in The Bedroom

Do You Struggle With Communication in The Bedroom? Or maybe your partner struggles to communicate their needs OR to hear your needs in the bedroom without getting offended. Do you worry that your partner is going to feel insecure or take it personally if you tell them what you like and don't like about sex? Well, this article is going to help you level up your skills in this department!

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How to Give and Receive Feedback in The Bedroom

This will provide you with a framework to approach difficult conversations with your partner or lover about sex and intimacy. If you struggle to feel comfortable talking about sex, expressing your needs and desires, or putting boundaries in place when it comes to sex, this article is for you! Learn the main principles of communication in relationship and a scaffolding for having hard conversations

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Why You Shouldn’t Go Straight for the Pussy!

Tips about how a woman's body likes to be approached in the bedroom. Sex tips and teachings for lovers of women so that you can make sure you're nailing it in the bedroom and making her melt into the most pleasure she can possible have! Learn about how a woman ticks and what she likes in the bedroom from a sex coach.

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Dry but DTF - Arousal non-concordance and why your vaginal lubrication doesn’t always match your libido

Ever been super turned on and horny but not wet? Or maybe you notice your vagina is naturally lubricating but you're not actually feeling aroused. This is called arousal non-concordance and it's when your genital response doesn't match your subjective level of arousal and turn-on. read more to find out how to read your body's signals and signs in the bedroom!

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Vagina Rehab - Post Birth Pelvic Floor Tips

Learn how to rehabilitate and heal your pelvic floor after suffering prolapse or struggling with incontinence or painful sex, and strengthen your pelvic floor muscles again after having a baby. This article will help you get your vagina back in shape after birth!

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Sex and Shame Pollution - Why I Now Massage Vaginas

The role that shame played in my sex life was huge, and after deciding enough was enough I finally begun tackling my sexual trauma once and for all. Through my journey with my own sexual struggles, hang-ups and insecurities I discovered how powerful this work is and wound up training in holistic sex education and coaching as well as massaging hundreds of vaginas as a yoni mapping therapist!

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What is Your Period Blood Telling You?

Ever wondered what the colour and texture of your blood mean? Well, your menstrual blood is a great indicator of your health and in this article you can find out what your period blood is showing you about the state of things inside you!

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Yoni Care - The Fundamentals For a Healthy Vagina

Learn the most important tips to keep your pussy happy and healthy. If you struggle with BV, Thrush or UTIs, this article is for you! Make sure you don't stay in the vicious cycle of vaginal imbalance that causes you to go back and forth between Thrush and BV or UTIs with these yoni care tips!

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Spontaneous vs Responsive Arousal

Wanna know how men and women differ in the bedroom? Learn an invaluable truth about how men's and women's arousal work differently and how this is effecting our sex lives!

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Trauma Responses in Yoni Massage and How to Navigate Them

Trauma, emotions and memories can be stored in the tissues of the body, and especially inside the vagina. This is even more prevalent in those who have suffered sexual abuse and hold trauma in their bodies that may be released through yoni massage. This article will teach you how to handle this and notice if as trauma response is potentially occurring in yourself or a partner.

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Context Dependent Arousal in Women

Discover how context-dependent arousal influences a woman's ability to get turn on and stay turned on. When it comes to a woman's pleasure and arousal, there are several important factors to take into account that will either make or break her experience and her ability to orgasm.

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